Here’s to all the men out there.
Everywhere I turn, I see all these posts about positivity and support for women. What about all those men out there?
I agree that men already have more privileges than most women and things are often easier for them but that doesn’t mean they don’t have the same problems as others. And I’m tired of their problems being neglected because “men don’t show emotions”. That’s rubbish!
To that man who was called short; you sir, are a beautiful human being and your height doesn’t define you.
To that man who was called out for his acne problem; don’t let them take you down; you’re just as handsome as anyone else.
To that man who needs to wear binders; I’m sorry the world is such an asshole to you. I wish you didn’t have to worry about being who you are.
To that man who was called names for shedding a few tears; don’t you worry about that, darling. Tears are beautiful and I’m glad you’re brave enough to let your emotions show. It’s really quite attractive.
To that man who was sneered at for being on the heavier side; I’m sorry people can be such idiots. It’s their loss for not seeing the beauty radiating from within you.
To that man who was poked at for being skinny; I’m sorry people have a problem with everything. You don’t have to have bulging muscles to be “manly”. Skinny is beautiful too. It’s downright appealing.
To that man who was being stared at for being bald; don’t bother with nutcases, you’re dashing anyway.
To that man who was ridiculed for liking pink; sir, I think you’ve got your choices right. If people are going to colour-shame, they deserve to be ignored.
To that man whose gender was questioned for not being interested in sports; snub those ignorant folk, love. We’ll go do something more fun.
To that man who got bullied for being non-heterosexual; I’m sorry the world is a trashcan but I promise to stand by you if you’d let me. You’re fabulous, please don’t forget that.
To that man who was sexually assaulted; you may have been just a boy or maybe you were grown up but I’m sorry this world doesn’t recognize your torment. I do. And I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m sorry that your pain is dismissed and you’re told you were lucky to get “laid”. I know it hurt and I know it’s your nightmare and I’m here for you. I’d fight for your justice if you needed me to.
To all the men out there, whether you’re perfect or imperfect; you’re appreciated and loved just the way you are. You’re important and wanted.